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Enon Day - Family Reunions in Rural Texas

Written on: 07/14/2008 16:11 by: Jason Parrish        
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My earliest childhood memories of visiting my Grandparents on our 6th generation farm in East Texas include "Enon Day." Second only to Christmas, "Enon Day" is a very special family tradition were every able-bodied living relative returns to Hagerville to meet under the tall pine trees, bring a homemade dish, and give each other a hug.

The namesake of Enon Day is also the location, Enon Cemetery. To some people - especially urban dwellers - the thought of gathering at a cemetery to have a social event is disturbing. For us, it is a day of tradition, remembrance and celebration.

We decorate every grave with flowers. We gather under the tabernacle built by past generations to discuss the state of the union. We recognize the oldest, youngest, and who traveled the farthest to attend. And, we compete for which family name has the most attendees. It is confusing for those city people when I raise my hand for both the “Parrish” clan and the “Steed” clan, but I explain that my grandparents were raised on neighboring ranches.

From childhood to adulthood to parenthood, it has been a constant in my life to attend Enon Day. Watching my children play with their cousins, carrying on the tradition, and the knowledge of where I will be buried one day, give me great peace and comfort.

 

Comments:

Author:udamdan Comment Left:07/19/2008 19:30

That is so special for them little ones , great memories for all your family and thanks for sharing Jason !

Author:Pooba Comment Left:08/13/2008 14:47
Great story
Author:joy68pinner Comment Left:08/16/2008 10:05

Jason,

Peachie told me about your website.  I especially enjoyed the Enon Day.

My name is Opal Joyce Kelsey.  My mom and Aunt Katy were sisters.

I have know your dad always and of course your Aunt Jacqueline.

Thanks for your time,

Joy Kelsey Pinner

Author:misyeri Comment Left:11/21/2008 00:08

Hey Jason, I used this pics today in my class because we were comparing city and small towns. My class loved it!

Misyeri

Author:wohalliburton Comment Left:12/01/2008 21:37

I think its great what your family does...wish more did.

Author:Jason Parrish Comment Left:04/02/2009 21:57

ENON CEMETERY

Enon Cemetery was established in 1882 in the churchyard of the Old Enon Baptist Church, located on a five acre plot of the R.E. Carr Survey in the eastern part of Houston County, Texas.  It is approximately 4 miles southeast of Ratcliff, off Texas Highway 7.

In those early days, land was “set aside” for schools, churches, and cemeteries, without cost, by the land owners.  Southern Pine Lumber Company bought all the land in 1916 an they honored that grant, by sending a deed for the five acres to two deacons of the Old Enon Church, W.M. Campbell and W. R. McClain.  Southern Pine Lumber Co. later traded this land to the Davy Crockett National Forest, which now surrounds the little cemetery.

In 1890, after the church/school building was destroyed by a forest fire, the school moved to a more central area to land, owned by Bill Hager.  Thus the Hagerville School, a two story building, also became the new church site for some time.

No one knows why Becky Freeman, a young girl, unknown to the local folk, was in the area and became ill and died.  Hers is the first grave that appeared in Enon Cemetery in the terrible winter of 1882.  Her father erected a pagoda of pine poles and hand split boards over her grave.  As far as the residents of the community knew, no one ever returned to tend the grave.  In 1960, when the untreated pine pagoda had totally rotted, a small grave marker was purchased for by Washie Dillon Lenderman, who had a love for the beauty and upkeep of the cemetery.

Volunteers maintained the cemetery for years, until changing times called for the formation of an association.  A committee was elected to collect donations, oversee the grounds upkeep, direct the digging of graves, and remind the kinfolk of the homecoming day.   A chain link fence was put up around the cemetery, shrubs were planted and a Historical Marker has been erected.

The efforts of the committee led to the construction of another building, a pavilion style, in 1956, to be used for funerals and homecoming activities.   Homecoming is always held on the fourth Sunday of June.

Not all are related who come to Enon, but most are either descendants of early Houston County settlers or have married into the families.  Among the family groups found buried here are the names McComb, English, James, Dillon, Jones, Walker, Reeves, Griggs, Lenderman, Anglin, Brunner, Luttrell, Wright, Childers, Parrish, Pearson, Golden, Dean, and Day.

No fees have ever been charged since the cemetery was established.  Donations are received to provide funds for the upkeep of the cemetery and the building.

 

ANTIOCH CEMETERY

Antioch Cemetery, located between Kennard and Ratcliff in Houston County, near the Coltharp Community.  A sign is erected at the site of the Coltharp-Hagerville road intersection, directing traffic the 3 ½ miles to the cemetery.  Another sign is just east of the Ratcliff business section.  That distance is about 2 miles on the National Forest road, then a short distance off on a small county road.  Either entry is from a graded county road maintained for school bus traffic in all seasons.  It is a scenic detour off  Texas Highway 7.

Antioch Cemetery originated after the Antioch Primitive Baptist Church was established in 1859.  The first engraved marker is dated 1860.  To date the cemetery has more than 300 marked graves and more than 84 unnamed graves.

The Antioch Cemetery association evolved into a caretaker organization, first as a work crew, later contracting paid grounds keepers.  In 1978 an endowment fund was established that now provides funds for the cemetery maintenance.

Eventually the old church became too dilapidated to meet in, so it was replaced with an open pavilion.  Tables and benches were bought and a cyclone fence was erected around the burial grounds.  Dedicated individuals and family groups have established landscape plantings.  Old Cedar trees and crepe myrtle shrubs are landmarks in the old cemetery.

  1. A few of our relatives, from the our dad’s side of the family, buried at Antioch Cemetery are:
  2. My great-grandparents, Lizzie Emma and James Newton Parrish
    Two of their children, John H. and Virgie, who died in childhood
  3. My great-great grandfather, John Henry Poole, who died with rabies
  4. My great-great grandmother, Martha Ann Garrison Poole
  5. Seven siblings of great-grandmother Lizzie are also buried there: Albert Cornelius, Archie, W.H., and unnamed Infant; A.A., John Dudley; and Nora.
  6. Great-Uncles of mine, Robert H. Gibson, husband of Lillian Parrish.
  7. Their son Johnny Gibson
  8. Great-Uncle Troy Wright, husband of Lillie Belle Parrish and their son Harold
  9. I also have many Steed and Petty Relatives buried at Antioch, as well as my great-great-great grandmother, Jane Dillon.

 

IVIE CEMETERY

Ivie Cemetery is located in southeast Houston County, near the Trinity County line, off FM 327 East, from Kennard (en route to Apple Springs).  Approximately seven miles from Kennard is a marker indicating a turn for the cemetery.  Turn onto the road and travel about three miles and turn left onto a Forest Service Road, the buildings and fences are about ¾ mile south.

The Ivie Cemetery was established when Henry G. Ivie was buried near the Neches River Missionary Baptist Church in 1861.  Eventually, both the church and the cemetery began to be called Ivie. Trustees named in the early deeds were JA Pool, DA Williams and Ben Williams.  Louisiana and Texas Lumber Company executed a deed, but technical difficulties resulted in the need for an additional two deeds, which were drawn by Temple Lumber Company after its acquisition of the forests once held by LTLC.

The current Ivie Cemetery Association collects burial fees, and contributions to add to a growing endowment fund and hire workers to assure the maintenance of the cemetery.  There have been some very substantial bequests given to Ivie Cemetery.

The annual meeting is held the last Sunday in May. A listing of the graves is noted in the Houston County (TEXAS) Cemeteries Book. One historical marker has been erected.

My great-great-great grandfather, James Murph Hager, b 1822; d. 3-11-1879

My great-great-great grandmother Naoma Clark Hager, b. 1824; d.1906 (from the mountains of Kentucky.)  He had the earliest birth date that I found buried at Ivie.  

I have numerous relatives buried here.

Author:lollynpops Comment Left:04/19/2009 12:42
Hi Jason, I have been going to Enon Day since I was a child. What sweet memories I have of Hagerville growing up as a child. Every summer we would come to see Aunt Lora and Uncle Dent and Tooter. Of course played all day long with Mona and Berta in the play house and swimming in the ponds along with the cows! This last December my sweet Aunt Lora was taken from Perryton to be buried by Uncle Dent. It is a place now where her and Uncle Dent can once again be joined together. I just want to thank you for being such a wonderful friend to Lynn and his family. I love him so much. Hopefully one day we can reunite. I think the last time I saw you you were walking in Aunt Katies house with your big rubber boots I am sure you were fishing. Love all of you! Dianne Felix
Author:texashuntfish Comment Left:12/29/2009 11:12

That is really neat Jason.  Thanks for sharing.  Spending time on the more important things in life is something many just dont do anymore.  It's all about work and "little things" that get in the way.  That's great you and your family take the time out fromt eh busy schedules and make that a priority.

Author:sewilliams Comment Left:05/09/2010 19:46

Another family that is well represented in Enon Cemetery is the Tanner family, including Elbert and Elsie Tanner (my grandparents), and my uncles Robert Owens, Philip Maurice, Cyril Wayne and Raymond Stuart. The Tanners have been in the "neighborhood" since the mid 1940s, living just down the road from Enon Cemetery.

Author:ivie Comment Left:08/01/2010 11:20

Old Ivie's oldest birth date belonges to Henry G. Ivie (1811 - 1867) I thought, am I wrong? I have truly enjoyed your writings and photos. My ashes will be scattered on what is left of the Ivie property about 100 yards back behind the Church. There is still the family home place cistern there, along with my wife's ashes. Sure would like to make the annual meeting one time before "cashing it in". It is a beautiful old cemetary. I have enjoyed visiting it through the years, and Mt. Vernon Cemetary where My Grand Mother and her kin (the connors) are burried.